Choose a Different Perspective: June 2018

David Graham June 5, 2018

Monthly Newsletter

“Our earth is only one polka dot among a million stars in the universe.” – Yayoi Kusama

On Wednesday of last week, I drove to the AGO in the bright spring sunshine with the roof down in my Mini Cooper. I was buzzing with anticipation; it was finally time to see the Yayoi Kusama’s Infinity Mirrors. I met up with a good friend, grabbed a beer and we headed in.

As we entered each room, the lighting and mirrors revealed a space that went on forever.  Whether it was a large room, small room or a peep hole, there was an incredible vastness to each instalment. Once we adjusted our focus, it gave us a sense of limitless possibility.

But in the real rooms of life, it’s not quite that simple, is it? How do we see a positive outcome when we are knee deep in the tough stuff? It’s not always that easy to shift our perspective when we’re struggling.

Recently a friend called me for some coaching on a difficult work situation. After a brief conversation, I was delighted to hear that she felt a little lighter. But why? Her situation hadn’t changed. Much like Kusama’s infinity rooms, she was able to adjust her perspective and look at it from a new refreshed point of view.

But it doesn’t end there. Unlike an art exhibit, it’s a continual process that we need to work on, over and over again. First, we must take a deep breath and acknowledge our current feelings. Then take a big step back to look at the big picture, adjust the focus, chose a different angle and then move forward.

The world belongs to those who can keep opening up their perspective to see a bigger picture, navigating the kaleidoscope of daily emotions we feel each and every day.

Wishing you a beautiful perspective in June!

Dave

David Graham

Dave is a Master Certified Coach (MCC) with the International Coach Federation and an associate faculty member at Royal Roads University. With over 30 years of experience coaching and leading teams, he has built a reputation as a trusted, inspiring, and fun coach to Canada’s top businesses and leaders.